If you’re right, why do I stay? Joining you would be moral.
You’re not right; you can’t be. All of a sudden, a profound personal philosophy? Yesterday you were chugging the power hour.
Oh, you quote professors now.
Did you specifically learn new Torah sources to reject them? What books have you been reading? I must read them. I must not read them.
How can you do this to me? You call me blind to everything you see.
Am I supposed to just sit here while you mock what’s most important to me? I’ll wipe that self-righteous grin off your faces.
I can convince you to stay.
I can martial arguments I find convincing. I will put them forward in my most reasonable voice. My tone says, “You’re hurting me.”
At least you’re now following the authentic Judaism of the Talmudic sages to the letter, unhindered by the reforms of Moses.
If it’s all just a choice, choose to be with me.
I love you and everything, but stop pretending this changes nothing.
There are three of us now, you, me, and the Torah, and you cannot speak without sounding jealous, but I remember when the Torah was our love-letter, not my mistress.
I choose Torah over you? Who is this “you” and when was it born?
I’m sorry. I’m sorry. I’m sorry.
I can’t convince you of anything.
Faith is all I have, and I cannot give it to you. Before, you saw that as wealth. Now, you think I’m poor. I have not changed.
Retreat, retreat. To the small keep, inside.
I can roll my eyes as high as you.
We can still be friends. If we can’t still be friends, you’ll say it’s my fault.
You say you’re “just asking questions” but they all run in one direction.
Well, this hurts.
Maybe I don’t get it because I wasn’t raised religious.
You’re so powerfully authentic, to question. Thank you for joining the club. Thank you for questioning every day, for struggling, for plumbing ever-deeper into what belongs to you. Oh, you’ve left.
I liked you better as I imagined you, sitting before the feat of our shared sages, appreciating the same light, before you opened your mouth and leaped from the tapestry demanding that you, too, were to be encountered.
Repent before me.
Why am I not leaving?
Maybe I’m brainwashed.
I don’t think I’m brainwashed.
You say I’m full of wishful thinking.
I don’t think so.
Don’t you see it’s personal for me?
Why is it all so personal? I need it to be. I hate that it is.
It’s all just labels. We’re really the same, maybe? I hope it doesn’t talk about souls anywhere in Judaism.
I can see in your eyes you’re ready for the part of the movie where we realize loving each other is more important than our intransigent ideological commitments. I’m not ready. I hate those movies.
I probably sin more than you do, but for me it’s unofficial.
You probably care more about Judaism than I do.
You probably have a deeper relationship with G-d than I do. The screenwriters were always on your side.
It’s all just group identity, and you didn’t care to stay in my group. What now? Shall I impale you upon a spear?
I can’t wait for you to abandon the restrictive social codes of religious society so you can acquire better restrictive social codes you apply to all my actions. When did I ever judge you, by the way?
I have never encountered more restrictive rules in my life than in trying to navigate a conversation with you since the fall.
Perhaps I’m your heretic.
I’m sorry. I’m not at fault here. Just thoughts.
You make me feel every time I mention Judaism I’m an evangelist. I hope you’re fooled by my smile/grimace when you bring up psychology.
How can we be having a genuinely angry argument over Artificial Intelligence? The joke is obvious.
You didn’t stick around long enough to observe the strange unfolding of the blossoms from bitter and rejected seeds.
You can’t be fixed. Judaism can’t be fixed for you. Fixing them is breaking them. And you’re meant to be an end, not a means.
You can bring the horse to water but you can’t make him read a book without a million catty comments.
Agony! Can we not step into the past, wrap it around ourselves, and settle among its answers? Religion comes between us? What we imagine comes between us. The future comes between us.
Maybe I don’t get it because I never did hallucinogens.
You tie it to who you are, lay down before me, and dare me to tread on you, but you crouch behind objectivity like a shield. The day is young, but, before sunset, you’ll pick one.
I don’t want to think I’m better than you, but if you dare me…
Even the old songs wither in your mouth. Not because you intend it. Because I can’t slip my mind, in order to find you, past the ironic remove at which you’ve set yourself.
You seem not to like it when I take your choice too seriously.
Why are you still living in this neighborhood?
You don’t want me to define you even by the definitions you provide. You want to float unmoored in pure self-definition. You want to be worshipped, not evaluated.
I know the way is true. I still don’t doubt it’s true. Yet we also stand apart, and so I pause. Must it last forever?
Fine, don’t stay for the experience. Stay for the struggle with the experience. Fine, stay for the struggle with the struggle. Stay for the struggle with the struggle with the –
Am I supposed to pretend I don’t want you to be observant?
I disagree but can’t argue.
Maybe I don’t get it because I’m not handsome enough.
There is some ending to this story where you come over to my side, right?
I can step back and see how we’re united in our opposition. I can step back further and see how that’s not good enough. Stop me when I hit a wall, if you still believe in those.
G-d has made it in such a way that it matters a lot that you’re doing this together with me.
Why can’t we be together?
Why don’t I leave?
Maybe you’re right.
But I won’t.
What do you know about being religious that I don’t?
At least you can go to those deep rebel farbrengens without being sniffed out as a fascinated impostor.
What about my worship of G-d was so fake and so horrible it couldn’t inspire you to stay?
You’re going to swear a lot now to prove how real you are, aren’t you?
At least you made a choice.
Infinite questions, no acceptable answers.
Let’s play the game where we guess which book fuels today’s rebellion.
Almost anything is forgivable, except that you’re more forgiving than me.
I hope it changes nothing.
In the end, perhaps we’re all in the cradle or the grave.
You say my whole life is built upon a mistake you made in your teens.
Make me hate you, then explain how it’d all be so much more peaceful if no one believed in anything.
The one who gets angry first loses.
Are you going to be a good person now? Weird. I thought you were a good person from the day we met.
It’s a mitzvah to love you, to rebuke you, to draw you closer. If I don’t do any of these things, and let the relationship atrophy, perhaps finally, finally, we would be alike.
I hold out secret hope that I’ll stumble over the key to winning you over. You hold out the same hope. This is how we love each other now.
Maybe I care about these things more than I love you. Perhaps it was a conditional love. Perhaps it was what we had in common that kept me from your depths. Perhaps this is our long-short road.